The opposite of joy is hopelessness & the opposite of peace is anxiety.
{In an effort to be more sincere on this blog, I want to start sharing more of the things that are on my heart, the good and the bad.}
Today I'm going to share with you one of my struggles: anxiety. Specifically,
new-mom anxiety. I've always been a worrier, but since having a baby my worries have only magnified. Thoughts creep in when I'm drifting off to sleep, when I'm backing out of my drive-way, or when I leave Henry in his crib while I take a shower.
Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice. Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. Philippians 4:4-8 (ESV)
The keyword in this is
thanksgiving and the answer is to thank God when you make any and all of your requests. It is to say, no matter what I want, I would rather Your will be done and I am thankful that You are in control.
Tim Keller says, "Peace is confidence and trust in God's wise control of your life."
One of my aha-moments was when I heard Wayne Grudem's teaching of the
doctrine of prayer, which helped me realize the key to trust. He said, "God
delights in being trusted." I sat for several minutes just soaking that in. I urge you to soak that in, too. He loves it when we trust Him. When I thought about it from this new perspective: not about myself and what trust does for me, but about God and what it does for Him, it made it so much easier. And let me tell you, when you realize this and you truly begin to put your trust in Him, the peace is so, so sweet.
I remind myself of this every time the anxieties start to creep back in. It's a growing process, but the difference in how I now respond to these feelings is remarkable.